"Intellectual Petting"

Another Match.com weirdo comes out of the woodwork. Here is the original email I received:
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From: real_deal123
Date received: October 07, 2009
Subject: hang w/ the boys huh?? hmmm..

Well, that pic of the 100 dollar bill is hilarious.... and you look like you know exactly how to have a good time.. I don't write to many on here, but I loved your profile.. .and I'm thinking the sense of humor is probably fantastic... hope to chat soon...
David
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I have to admit, I was flattered. I mean, Real_Deal_Davie doesn't email many on Match.com but he chose ME!!! Despite his obnoxious user ID I take a look at his profile. As a rule of thumb, when looking at someone's profile you always start with their pictures first that way you don't waste valuable moments of your life reading a profile that ultimately won't ever matter. I'm flipping through his pics and they are all relatively normal, a smiling "husky-ish" fellow who likes beaches and restaurants and seems to have a social life. He cropped out all friends, but he was with other people.

Then I get to the last picture...and it's a self portrait taken in what is CLEARLY a laundry room, but the fact that there's a broad mirror tells me it's a laundry room/bathroom. There wasn't even an attempt to disguise the fact that it was a self portrait in a bathroom mirror, he was holding his blackberry up and out to get the best angle and lighting for the photo.

I'm intrigued at this total lapse in good picture judgment and I read his profile.
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Headline:
Anybody else a flip-flop fanatic?? Looking to find my other 1/2 to the flip-flop gang.. LOL.. I do wear appropriate footwear when it matters

Profile:
Just to clear up something: I have tons of flexibility in my schedule so location is not that important within reason.

Must be able to really laugh at yourself at times... This world is too serious!!!

First of all, I must say rock solid in terms of my loyalty and character, just making that clear, and secondly, I am really looking for someone with whom I engage in "intellectual petting" if you know what I'm talking about you probably would get along well with me....Wow..what a tough thing to try and sum up in 4000 characters.. Get to know me and I am a very trustworthy, generous, loving, loyal person who really enjoys life to the fullest. I've travelled all over the US and enjoy taking many trips/year even if those trips are only 2 to 3 days. I enjoy intellectual stimulation with someone as I love to learn new things and love to be constantly challenged.. My ideal person (NOT a must) would be intelligent, possibly athletic, maybe a former high school or collegiate athlete and I do get along with teachers, nurses, and those from the business community best but I am totally open to other options.. I have typically been attracted to tall women, but that does not rule out anyone, though I do draw the line at 5' 1", LOL.. There is so much more to me than 4000 characters and I think I am really looking for someone with a GREAT sense of humor that meshes well with mine, someone who loves the water/beach, trustworthy and loyal are big factors as well. Many things are open for discussion and I only have a few deal breakers, smoking being one of them.
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My immediate thoughts:
-Douchebag
-Here we go with the LOYALTY again - and three references to it!!
-Intellectual petting - WTF?
-I like how his ideal woman does not have to be intelligent. It's good he specifies that because he doesn't have a chance with an actual intelligent woman.
-Teachers and Nurses = Fetish

I'm annoyed that he wrote to me and stated that not many woman receive the honor of an email from him, yet he has obviously contacted enough women on Match who live some distance away that he offers the disclaimer about his schedule flexibility. So I write him an email pointing out in a subtle way that I think he, and his bathroom self portrait, are lame.

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To: real_deal123
Date received: October 11, 2009
Subject: RE: hang w/ the boys huh?? hmmm..

Hi David,

Thanks for your email. I looked at your profile and to be honest I have no idea what intellectual petting is. I did Google the term and the first result was a blog "confessions of an intellectual Barbie." The second result was a biography on Pope John Paul II. The third result was a band "Heavy Petting" and the fourth, "Petting Zoo Gifts." Eclectic mix there.

Is one of your profile pics REALLY a self-portrait taken in a what appears to be a laundry room...if not a bathroom?
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And the response comes back...
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From: real_deal123
Date received: October 12, 2009
Subject: RE: hang w/ the boys huh?? hmmm..

so you are sarcastic..!!! Fantastic..., and yes, that pic was in the bathroom/laundry room.. it's my self-portrait room... I can't wait to hear some things that border on inappropriate.. .haha... that comment was hilarious!!...

Need to know more about you!!
David
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Douchebag status: Confirmed. (As if there were any doubts.) A self-portrait room....how many self portraits does a moderately unattractive man need? I can only begin to wonder how many pics he snapped of himself in the bathroom the night he took the pic that actually made it online. I had no intentions of replying to his email, as my single question ("did you really take a pic in the bathroom?") had been answered. But Real_Deal_Davie has fallen for me...and I suspect he kept thinking about me and re-reading my email again and again and again...because one day later he writes back. For a second time.
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From: real_deal123
Date received: October 13, 2009
Subject: RE: hang w/ the boys huh?? hmmm..

Intellectual petting is that feeling when you are turned on by a conversation w/ someone... but more in depth than that... Any interest in chatting on the phone?

David
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Ah, so intellectual petting = talking dirty. Creepy, weird and way too much information way too soon. Is he really asking me for phone sex? Do I have to pretend I'm either a nurse or a teacher? Or does he want to have a stimulating conversation with me about the notional value of options contracts on an equity portfolio. Yeah, that will definitely turn him on.

Sorry Real_Deal_Davie, I have no interest in giving you the intellectual petting you crave. If I'm going to talk dirty it's going to be for a 1-900 number so I get paid. Because as you know, I only give freebies to the guys at work: [in sexy, sultry voice] So guys, who's Justin Beaver?